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So, like many Friedan fans, I would love to spend this 50th anniversary of The Feminine Mystique just binge-reading my way through all the reverent commemoration —breezing in blissful denial over every retrospective's obligatory "caveat" paragraph deed to remind readers that, well, yes, it did supposedly have its flaws.

But the truth is that in the years since its publication, other theorists and scholars, feminist and otherwise, have presented grave complications to the legacy of The Feminine Mystiquewith regard to its scope, its inspirations, and its messages to women—complications that deserve much more than one quick, painless paragraph's worth of consideration. Like any beloved, much-studied text, secular or sacred, The Feminine Mystique deserves to be read critically in order to be understood fully.

So, lest we get too rosy remembering the achievements of The Feminine Mystiquelet's review in further detail some of those bubble-bursting, parade-raining criticisms. According to the aforementioned thinkers and philosophers, Betty Friedan's book is a courageous text with a noble goal, but Inblack feminist theorist bell hooks introduced her own book, From Margin to Centerwith a searing indictment of The Feminine Mystique : Though Friedan's book had spawned what came to be known as the second-wave feminist movement, it focused on what wasn't a universal female problem but rather a problem endured only by white, upper- and middle-class mothers and wives.

According to hooks, Friedan had written myopically, as though women of other races and classes—those who, she argued, were most victimized by sexist oppression—simply didn't exist. But her delivery of this particular criticism ranks among the most withering. Emphasis is my own, throughout. When Friedan wrote The Feminine Mystiquemore than one-third of all women were in the work force.

Although many women longed to be housewives, only women with leisure time and money could actually shape their identities on the model of the feminine mystique. In it, he exposed a startling, weirdly little-known truth about its author: She wasn't who she said she was.

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In and the years afterward, Friedan had claimed that she "came to political consciousness out of a disillusionment with her life as a suburban housewife," and in so doing, she promoted The Feminine Mystique by marketing its authenticity. But Betty Friedan was not a simple housewife driven to action by her own feelings of domestic captivity.

Rather, she was a seasoned radical with years of experience in leftist politics. Horowitz's book revealed that Friedan, then known as Betty Goldstein, had become involved with radical leftist activism during her years at Smith College from to At Smith, she was editor of a college campus paper that argued for non-intervention in WWII and unionization of the maids on campus.

From toshe wrote for the Federated PressAmerica's foremost leftist news service at the time, and for Calling all housewives and college naughty old ladies years to she wrote for UE Newsthe news periodical of the radical-aligned United Electrical, Radio and Machine Workers of America union. There, she wrote pamphlets calling for equal pay and an end to discrimination. According to Horowitz. Somewhat ironically, given the criticism she received from bell hooks and others. So even though, as Horowitz puts it, "most women's historians have argued that s feminism emerged in response to the suburban captivity of white middle-class women during the s, the material in Friedan's papers suggested additional origins—anti-fascism, radicalism and labor union activism of the s.

And while Friedan did have a big house, a breadwinning husband, and three children, she was never anybody's typical, cooped-up suburban housewife. She enjoyed a successful side career as a freelance journalist, and often traveled for her reporting. Several of Betty Friedan's fundamental arguments in The Feminine Mystique are based on source materials by Margaret Mead, Alfred Kinsey, and Bruno Bettelheim—three thinkers whose most famous conclusions have since come under serious critical questioning. As Alan Wolfe wrote in The Atlantic inthat fact raises "the uncomfortable question of whether a book can arrive at the larger truths if the bricks on which it is built won't stand up to time.

For instance: Friedan drew on Mead's early findings from her anthropological studies in Samoa to argue that sexuality was shaped by culture, rather than nature, and that guilt over promiscuity was a social construct. Unfortunately for Friedan, Mead was later discovered to have been hoaxed by her Samoan research subjects. According to Wolfe.

Then there was Alfred Kinsey, a sexuality scholar whose s studies suggested there were surprisingly large s of gay men in America, and "found homosexuality most common among men who do not go beyond high school, and least common among college graduates.

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But Kinsey's biographer James H. Jones revealed big problems with his research methods. According to Wolfe, the methods would be considered unscientific today: Kinsey's interview subjects weren't from random sample groups but rather were men he'd found in prisons and bars, and for that reason, his theses on the nature of sexuality should never have been viewed as representative of all humans.

And Friedan also cited psychologist Bruno Bettelheim's writings about his experience in Nazi concentration camps in her chapter "Progressive Dehumanization: The Comfortable Concentration Camp.

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But there were big problems with basing these comparisons on Bettelheim's writings. As Wolfe discovered by reading biographies of Bettelheim, there were reasons to question the veracity of his s. He had a history of fabrication, starting with the academic credentials that qualified him for his first teaching job, and even plagiarism allegedly. And even more problematically. As Wolfe ultimately concludes, " The Feminine Mystique spoke truthfully enough to inspire many women both at the time and since. Yet in the longer run the faults of the book loom large.

If the pursuit of a good cause is accompanied by too much bad testimony, the social critic will eventually lose the trust of the very readers she wants to influence. In her book Still Crazy After All These Years: Women, Writing and Psychoanalysiscultural-studies scholar Rachel Bowlby gives eloquent voice to the concern that Friedan's book is not just heteronormative but at times even downright homophobic. I do not think this is unrelated to the national embrace of the feminine mystique. For the feminine mystique has glorified and perpetuated the name of femininity and passive, childlike immaturity which is passed on from mother to son, as well as to daughters.

A little further on, this becomes 'the homosexuality that is spreading like a murky smog over the American scene. Male homosexuality as the end-point of the feminine mystique is not just artificial, a regrettable but accidental distortion of the reality it overlays: it is a sinister source of cultural contamination.

This 'murky smog' is the final smut, the last 'dirty word' in the story of the mystique: that clean, feminine exterior is now found to hide a particularly nasty can of worms. Marketing and the mystique are together leading to 'bearded undisciplined beatnickery' and a 'deterioration of the human character.

Friedan even went on to coin the phrase "Lavender Menace" in the late s in reference to the threat that lesbian feminists supposedly posed to NOW and to the feminist movement as a whole. But inshe acknowledged her error at a women's conference in Houston by pledging support for lesbian Calling all housewives and college naughty old ladies.

According to Bhaskar A. Shuka's book Feminism: From Mary Wollstonecraft to Betty Friedan"When Betty Friedan took the microphone to pledge her support for the lesbian rights motion, women cheered, some cried, and all around the venue, thousands of lavender balloons rose from the floor, drifting triumphantly towards the ceiling.

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Popular Latest. The Atlantic Crossword. In Subscribe. Feminist theorist bell hooks took Betty Friedan's book to task for its racial exclusion. Betty Friedan is my favorite feminist. When I read Friedan's seminal work The Feminine Mystique at age 16, it changed my life—for the first time, I understood that feminism could be practical, could be noble, and had radically changed the world I lived in for the better. Related Story. Friedan's famous phrase, "the problem that has no name," often quoted to describe the condition of women in this society, actually referred to the plight of a select group of college-educated, middle- and upper-class, married white women—housewives bored with leisure, with the home, with children, with buying products, who wanted more out of life.

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Friedan concludes her first chapter by stating: "We can no longer ignore that voice within women that says: 'I want something more than my husband and my children and my house. She did not discuss who would be called in to take care of the children and maintain the home if more women like herself were freed from their house labor and given equal access with white men to the professions. She did not speak of the needs of women without men, without children, without homes. She ignored the existence of all non-white women and poor white women. She did not tell readers whether it was more fulfilling to be a maid, a babysitter, a factory worker, a clerk, or a prostitute than to be a leisure-class housewife.

From her early writing, it appears that Friedan never wondered whether or not the plight of college-educated white housewives was an adequate reference point by which to gauge the impact of sexism or sexist oppression on the lives of women in American society. Nor did she move beyond her own life experience to acquire an expanded perspective on the lives of women in the United States. I say this not to discredit her work. It remains a useful discussion of the impact of sexist discrimination on a select group of women.

Examined from a different perspective, it can also be seen as a case study of narcissism, insensitivity, sentimentality, and self-indulgence, which reaches its peak when Friedan, in a chapter titled "Progressive Dehumanization," makes a comparison between the psychological effects of isolation on white housewives and the impact of confinement on the self-concept of prisoners in Nazi concentration camps.

Friedan's version of her life, which historians and journalists readily accepted, hid from view the connection between her union activity of the s and early s and the feminism she articulated in the s. Her story made it possible for white suburban women readers to identify with its author and thereby enhanced the book's appeal. She emphasized how discriminatory practices corporations used against women hurt men as well by exerting downward pressure on wages of all workers.

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Friedan set forth a program that was, [historian Lisa] Kannenberg has noted, "a prescription for a gender-blind workplace. She highlighted the "even more shocking" situation African-American women faced, having to deal with the "double bars" of being female and African American. In The Fateful Hoaxing of Margaret Mead: A Historical Analysis of Her Samoan Research[Mead's critic Derek] Freeman shows in detail how Mead's most important informant, a young product of a culture that placed great emphasis on female virginity before marriage, was so embarrassed by Mead's probing that she responded in typical Samoan fashion by jokingly telling Mead the opposite of the truth.

Friedan could not give up the analogy. Like Bettelheim's fellow inmates in Dachau and Buchenwald, suburban women had "learned to 'adjust' to their biological role," had "become dependent, passive, childlike," had "given up their adult frame of reference to live at the lower human level of food and things. Bettelheim's authority as an expert in the psychology of extreme situations was derived from his s of his experiences at Dachau and Buchenwald. Were those s also fabricated? At the edges they certainly were. In particular, Bettelheim's portrayal of his fellow inmates as childlike has been challenged, especially by those who insist—with considerable justice—that it was the Nazis, not the Jews, who were their worst enemies.

As [biographer Richard] Pollak points out, the story actually originated with Eugen Kogon, and was retold by Bettelheim. Friedan sees 'frightening implications for the future of our nation in the parasitical softening that is being passed on to the new generation of children.

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